Can You Linger?

Can You Linger?

I’d hit it again. The point where I get scared. The point where I don’t want to stay at an event any longer. The point where I want to leave before anything bad happens. Before anything bad happens. It took me months to lay bare the actual thoughts running...
The Secret to Community

The Secret to Community

In the middle of an argument, I do this and it changes everything. There’s a secret to community. It’s simple. It’s easy. It’s effective. You can even multi-task it (although it’s better when you give it your whole focus). I use this in...
Be a Ray of Hope

Be a Ray of Hope

I’m not a great person to write this. I spend more time trying not to drag my friends down than building them up. I’m not confident in my value as a friend. But maybe you aren’t either.  So what can we do? This isn’t about our value as people. It never will be....
belonging soundtrack playlist

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