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Stop Trying to Earn Love
I had a really good conversation with a friend recently. She brought up something I’d said that hurt her. You know, a year ago my first response probably would’ve been to tell her that I had been worrying about that since it had come out of my mouth. How I’d...
You Need Friends
When I moved to Ohio just under a year ago, I thought the writing dream would look something like this: I would spend half my time at school, half at work, and the rest alone—worshipping God, writing, watching movies, practicing acting. Once I finished the program I...
In Church vs At Church
Are you in church or at church? This is a question that struck me a couple of months ago. I was blogging about community (check out that post here) and, in the middle of a writing rant, wrote that question and paused. I ended up cutting it from the original blog,...
Pumpkin Spice Spies
I showed up for class ready for a challenge. I wasn't disappointed: "Write a short story 1,500 words or less in two hours, based on the prompt pumpkin spice." I decided to try the spy genre for the first time, inspired by a true story told to me by a real FBI agent...
It Takes A Village…to Write A Book
Today I have a guest post to share by friend and fellow writer Thirzah. Thirzah and I met when I toured the apprenticeship program where I'm currently starting my second and final year as a student. Since we met I've had the honor of participating in two of her book...
Are you the molting friend?
The molting phase triggers when you transfer from living in your family’s mindset and lifestyle to opening up and sharing with friends about core aspects of life. From the outside it looks like a clash of mindsets and immature behavior. These are the friends who...
Feeling Safe in Friendship
I figured something out. If you don’t feel safe in friendships, one of the best ways to get that safety is stepping into friendships. I know, it sounds counterintuitive that doing the thing that scares you will take the fear away. But it’s true. You start...
