Maybe it’s not so different…

Maybe it’s not so different…

I started wondering this week why we think it’s so different to be in a relationship with God than anyone else.  Of course, he’s the King of the universe. There’s no way for it to be exactly the same.  But the mechanics of how a relationship works? Maybe they’re...
Cults Order Pizza

Cults Order Pizza

I used to work as a pizza delivery driver. It wasn’t safe, it wasn’t easy, but it left me with a lot of crazy stories. Like the time I delivered pizza to a cult gathering place. My boss pulled me aside to complain about the phone call. “They were very particular,” she...
How to Avoid Conflict (for Dummies)

How to Avoid Conflict (for Dummies)

Never admit that you’re wrong. People will stop trying to talk things out with you and cower before (or avoid) your very presence. Or entangle yourself in a codependent relationship. A codependent relationship is only a short-term fix, because eventually it will blow...
Stop Trying to Earn Love

Stop Trying to Earn Love

I had a really good conversation with a friend recently. She brought up something I’d said that hurt her.  You know, a year ago my first response probably would’ve been to tell her that I had been worrying about that since it had come out of my mouth. How I’d...
Pumpkin Spice Spies

Pumpkin Spice Spies

I showed up for class ready for a challenge. I wasn’t disappointed: “Write a short story 1,500 words or less in two hours, based on the prompt pumpkin spice.” I decided to try the spy genre for the first time, inspired by a true story told to me by a...
belonging soundtrack playlist

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