Vella Karman
Find a way to belong.
Welcome
God designed you to laugh and cry and hope and dream with other people. God designed you to belong. But it can be hard to feel like you belong. Sometimes fears hold us back from connecting with God and the people around us.
In high school, I prayed and prayed for good friendships, only to freeze when faced with awkward or vulnerable conversations. I found out that it’s possible to grow into community. Even if you feel awkward, you can do this. You can face your fears. You can connect. You can find a way to belong.
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Want stories of friendship in the Bible?
I compiled a list of passages about friends in the Bible. David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, etc… I learned so much in the process. I can’t wait to share the list and hear your insights!
Blog Posts
Burn your fear of FAILURE
When you’re afraid of failure, it makes sense to not even try. I used to do this all the time. When I was eleven, I wanted to be Clara in the Nutcracker. I'd just finished playing a “cavalry soldier” in the Ballet Arkansas presentation of Nutcracker and I knew I had...
Burn Your Fear of ABANDONMENT
I grew up with an intense fear of abandonment. I was one of those kids who clung to my mom when she wanted to walk out the door, especially if it involved a weekend away. And that was because when I was little, I was in some unsafe situations that weren't great for...
The fear you didn’t know you had…
Last night, I felt devoid of emotions. I’m not depressed. But I felt emptiness under the lamplight of my living room at 11 PM. So I prayed about it. And I felt God leading me to pick up a book called “Untangle Your Emotions” by Jennie Allen. This book revealed a fear...
Burn Your Fear of Rejection
Jesus died so you’d never have to feel rejection again. Before you tell me I’m crazy, hear me out. He died so that we could be accepted by God. The cross means you’re accepted in heaven, you’re part of the church, and you’re adopted as a child of God. These are...
Did you know I'm published?
I wrote a short story about grocery shopping and panic attacks. It’s published in a free online magazine called The Pearl.
Love listening to music?
I made a playlist full of songs about belonging, friendship, and loneliness. I’d love to share it with you! Join my mailing list for access to the hour-long Spotify and Youtube playlists.
